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3v3 Football Questions

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From introducing young players to decision-making and movement to making small-sided football fun and effective, this section brings together advice specifically relevant to the 3v3 format.

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Latest 3v3 Football Questions

3v3•U7•Player Development

Are coaches meant to stop children taking the same restart every time?

One of ours is the quickest to the ball whenever it goes out so he ends up taking nearly every restart. The other two barely get a go. I know the idea is not to...

Asked by GreyHoodie
Verified Answer41
3v3•U7•Matchday

can there be offside in a 3v3 game?

can there be offside in a 3v3 game?

Asked by iJOKER
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

She loves training but hides once the 3v3 starts

My U7 is confident in the warm-up and skills bits, then the game starts and she stays away from the ball. Is it best to leave her to find her way into it?

Asked by BecksM84
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3v3•U7•Formations & Tactics

Do U7s actually need positions in 3v3?

I'm helping with U7s and we keep saying defender, midfielder and striker. Is that useful at this age, or are we better just giving them simple ideas about space...

Asked by MartinF
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3v3•U7•Parents

Six-year-old only wants to score

My boy is 6 and if he gets the ball he just heads for goal. Doesn't matter who is free 😂. Is that something to correct at this age or just let him enjoy it?

Asked by Parksy
Verified Answer10
3v3•U8•Coaching & Sessions

Is two training nights plus a game too much for U8?

We've got keen kids who would train every night if we let them. At U8, would you rather have one really good session and the weekend game, or are two sessions f...

Asked by LiamC
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3v3•U7•Parents

Should I be telling my 7-year-old where to stand?

My son keeps looking over at us during 3v3 when he isn't sure where to go. I don't want to coach from the side, but it feels odd saying nothing when he's clearl...

Asked by ChrisW
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Out of Possession

Do you ever ask one player to stay back in 3v3?

I am leaning towards no. We had a game where all three flew forward, lost it and conceded into an empty goal. One of the adults immediately told a player to sta...

Asked by Taff
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Formations & Tactics

Are we actually trying to teach positions in 3v3?

I keep hearing coaches talk about having one at the back and two higher up. I understand why because otherwise they can all end up around the ball, but I though...

Asked by WP17
Verified Answer50
3v3•U7•Matchday

What do you do with a completely one-sided 3v3 game?

Had one tonight where it was basically goal, restart, goal for ten minutes. Do you just let the short game finish, swap a player between teams, or mix everyone ...

Asked by peteonline7
Verified Answer30

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3v3•U7•In Possession

If one U7 dribbles nearly every time, is that actually a problem?

Watching our first few 3v3 games, one lad gets the ball and his first thought is basically always to run with it. He probably passes once or twice a game. A few...

Asked by BlackCoffee
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Coach Development

Four little pitches and four adults giving four different messages

We ran a club 3v3 night with several pitches going at once. The football was great, but every adult facilitated differently. One barely spoke, one coached const...

Asked by mattagain2
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

No goalkeeper at U7 – do you prepare for that in training?

Our current group always wants someone in goal when we play at training. With 3v3 having no goalkeeper, are you stopping that now so it is not a shock next seas...

Asked by Mark17
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

One child is already really upset about losing the 3v3 games

My son is loving how much he gets the ball, but he is taking the results very seriously. They lost a few of the short games at the weekend and he was still talk...

Asked by George46
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

15x10 for 3v3 feels tiny – are you using bigger pitches?

We marked a 15x10 out tonight to show the coaches what it will look like and it felt really small once six kids were on there. I know thats the recommended size...

Asked by ClaireT
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

Best way to train a 3v3 carousel with 12 players?

I want to make our training start to feel like the new matchday without spending ages organising it. With 12 players I was thinking four teams of three, two sma...

Asked by NatAgain
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

Has 3v3 helped quieter players get involved for anyone else?

My daughter can be quite happy letting other children take over in bigger games, so I was unsure how she would find 3v3. It has only been a couple of sessions b...

Asked by OliviaP
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

Do you still use 4v4 or 5v5 in U7 training now?

We are playing 3v3 on matchday and the players are loving it. Just wondering whether people still throw in the odd 4v4 or 5v5 at training for a different pictur...

Asked by luke_again
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3v3•U7•Matchday

We spent half the 3v3 night chasing footballs

First proper go at it and the ball was out every few seconds. Are people putting spare balls all around each pitch and just getting another one in straight away...

Asked by NeilJ
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3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

Do you train 3v3 all week because they play 3v3?

New U7 coach here. If matchday is 3v3, should most of training be 3v3 as well? I still like 1v1s and 2v2s because everyone gets loads of the ball, but dont want...

Asked by TeaAndToast
Verified Answer40

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3v3•U7•Matchday

Six-minute 3v3 games – too short?

Anyone tried the really short games yet? Six minutes sounds like they have just got going and its over.

Asked by BeachWalkUK
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

Retreating after a goal – are you coaching it or just reminding them?

We tried some 3v3 tonight and after every goal the team who scored wanted to stay right next to the ball and win it again. I know they are meant to get back to ...

Asked by MM48
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Matchday

What happens when two U7s both think it is their restart?

This happened constantly in our little 3v3 games tonight. Ball went out, one child grabbed it, another child from the other team was convinced it was theirs and...

Asked by Ellie_70
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Squad Management

No subs sounds brilliant until eight kids turn up

Probably a stupid question but how are people handling this with squads bigger than six? We normally take everyone. I get that nobody should be sitting on the s...

Asked by JackOnline
Verified Answer50
3v3•U7•Matchday

How are clubs splitting 12 U7s across 3v3?

We are planning for next season and normally have around 12 at a matchday. With no subs in each game, are people basically running two pitches and four teams of...

Asked by HillWalk7
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•In Possession

Our 3v3 looks like six players following the ball

Early days, but every game is basically a little swarm moving from one side to the other. Im not expecting shape at U7, but do you give them any help with sprea...

Asked by Mike7
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Parents

Parent says 3v3 is not 'proper football' – how are people explaining it?

Had this after our first festival. No keeper, no referee, tiny pitch, short games and one parent came away saying it looked more like a playground game than foo...

Asked by FridayFeeling7
Verified Answer50
3v3•U7•Matchday

What is the pitch facilitator actually meant to do?

Trying to get my head around the adult role before we start 3v3. If there is no referee and the players are supposed to have more ownership, what are people exp...

Asked by JamesInHove
Verified Answer60
3v3•U7•Parents

How are you briefing parents before 3v3 starts?

This is probably the bit I am most worried about. The guidance around 3v3 seems to be much more about adults stepping back, but some of our parents are used to ...

Asked by AfterWorkCoach82
Verified Answer100
3v3•U7•Squad Management

What are people doing when the numbers do not divide nicely for 3v3?

Club question more than coaching. If 7 or 8 children turn up, are people just mixing teams and using 3v2 for a game rather than having children waiting?

Asked by DorsetOlivia
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Player Development

My son only wants to be a goalkeeper – 3v3 has thrown him a bit

hes U7 and for the last year if there was a goal he wanted the gloves. now there is no goalkeeper in 3v3 and he keeps asking why he cant stay in goal. i underst...

Asked by earlystart
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•In Possession

They dribble every restart straight into three players

Our U7s have really taken to being allowed to dribble the ball back in. The problem is nearly all of them put it down and sprint straight forward even when the ...

Asked by Maya1
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•In Possession

Do you ever coach what happens after a pass in 3v3?

A lot of ours pass and then stand still admiring it. In such a small game the next action comes immediately. Would you start introducing something as simple as ...

Asked by Sully
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Coach Development

Does every U7 mistake need a coaching point?

I watched one of our coaches give feedback after almost every six-minute game and by the fourth one the kids were barely listening. I am starting to think a lot...

Asked by BlackCoffee
Verified Answer51
3v3•U7•Player Development

U7 child will only defend and never goes forward

We talk a lot about stopping coaches creating defenders, but one girl in our group chooses to stay back herself. Nobody tells her to. She seems comfortable ther...

Asked by Aisha58
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

How do you stop confident U7s taking over every decision?

We have two brilliant little characters who decide who starts, who takes every restart and where everyone should stand. They are not being nasty, they are just ...

Asked by BeckyG
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Parents

How much do you explain to an U7 after a one-sided morning?

My son was in a group that lost pretty much every little game today. He was not devastated, but he did ask why they kept losing. I did not really know whether t...

Asked by FridayFeeling7
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•Matchday

Who should start each six-minute 3v3 game?

Small thing but it caused an argument at the weekend. We changed the groups around and two children both wanted to be the one who started with the ball. Do you ...

Asked by NatAgain
Verified Answer60
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

Should U7 training ever have a coach as a neutral player?

Sometimes I jump into a little game to help keep the ball moving or give the quieter side another option. It works, but I am also very aware that an adult on th...

Asked by Mark17
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Matchday

Can one club run its own 3v3 games if the opposition cancels?

We had an opponent pull out late and had 15 U7s already planning to come. Rather than cancelling, could we just run our own carousel with five threes and treat ...

Asked by EarlyStartUK
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Parents

Parents are comparing how many goals each child scores

We dont publish scores but somehow the adults have moved onto counting individual goals instead. A couple are saying things like 'he got seven today' in front o...

Asked by Jess1994
Verified Answer60
3v3•U7•Coaching & Sessions

Is there any point coaching throw-ins at U7 now?

Genuine question because the matchday restart is pass or dribble from the side. Do you completely leave throw-ins until they get older, or is there still value ...

Asked by NickS
Verified Answer50
3v3•U7•Out of Possession

Do you coach tackling properly at U7?

3v3 has created loads more 1v1 duels which is great, but it has also exposed that some of ours basically just swing a foot at the ball. Would you spend time act...

Asked by ColdTouchline82
Verified Answer70
3v3•U7•Player Development

Do you use captains in 3v3?

One of our coaches gives each little three a captain for the first game and changes it every time. I cant decide if that is a nice bit of responsibility or just...

Asked by peteonline7
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Squad Management

What do you do if the children keep swapping bibs and teams themselves?

Ours have realised the format is pretty relaxed and now halfway through the morning they start asking to be red, swapping with friends and moving themselves to ...

Asked by Mike7
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

My daughter hates being the one who restarts after conceding

She is fine during the game but if they concede she tries to give the ball to somebody else for the restart every time. I think she is worried she will lose it ...

Asked by George46
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

Should U7s be encouraged to celebrate goals together?

Random one. Some of ours run straight back for the restart, some go mad celebrating on their own and one lad always tries to get everyone together for a high fi...

Asked by SchoolGate7
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

My son passes the ball every time because he is scared of losing it

Bit of an opposite problem to what I normally hear. My son is U7 and in 3v3 he almost always looks for a pass straight away, even when there is loads of space i...

Asked by FridayFeeling7
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

How do you handle a child laughing when the other team keeps losing?

We had one boy celebrating every goal and then laughing when the other team conceded again. He is not a nasty child and I honestly think he was just excited, bu...

Asked by Aisha58
Verified Answer50
3v3•U7•Matchday

What are you doing with handball in 3v3?

We had three different opinions from adults in one morning. One wanted every handball stopped, one said ignore anything accidental and the other basically only ...

Asked by Sully
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Out of Possession

My son keeps standing inside the little goal to stop shots

There is no goalkeeper but he has worked out that if he stands almost inside the mini goal he can stop loads of shots. Nobody has told him to do it, he has just...

Asked by Ryan35
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Matchday

Are festivals taking too long because of all the changeovers?

We had six-minute games but somehow the whole thing still took nearly two hours because every round had five minutes of adults moving bibs, finding children and...

Asked by JackOnline
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Matchday

Do you need one adult for every 3v3 pitch?

Club logistics question. If we have four little pitches going at once, do we really need four separate pitch facilitators? We have enough coaches and helpers ov...

Asked by EarlyStartUK
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•Coach Development

How much should the U7 coach actually watch instead of coach?

I have found myself noticing loads more since the games got smaller because every action is obvious. The problem is I then want to fix all of it. Poor first tou...

Asked by Dan10
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

My daughter gets upset when she is moved away from a winning three

They had won two games together, then the coach mixed everyone and she could not understand why because in her words 'we were doing really well'. I can see why ...

Asked by OliviaP
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Squad Management

How do you keep track of which child has played which games?

With multiple pitches, mixed teams and no normal substitute pattern, our coaches are losing track of total involvement. I do not want a complicated spreadsheet ...

Asked by DorsetOlivia
Verified Answer40
3v3•U7•Matchday

Three 3v3 pitches next to each other was chaos with balls everywhere

First festival we had three small pitches side by side and balls were constantly rolling into the next game. Kids were chasing the wrong ball and one game stopp...

Asked by BeachWalkUK
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Player Development

How do you help an U7 who never asks for the ball?

We have one who is actually very good when the ball arrives, but he never calls for it and tends to wait rather than move into a space where he can receive. In ...

Asked by Olivia1996
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

Is it okay if an U7 does not want to play every game?

We keep talking about maximum playing time, but one child in our group sometimes wants to sit with mum for a game and then comes back happy for the next one. I ...

Asked by EmJ84
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•In Possession

Would you ever stop an U7 taking every kick-in as a shot?

Our little goals are close enough that one lad has worked out he can shoot from almost every restart. Sometimes it goes in, sometimes it flies miles away. Part ...

Asked by BecksM84
Verified Answer70
3v3•U7•Squad Management

Late arrivals completely mess up our 3v3 groups

We had 12 organised as four groups of three, then one arrived ten minutes late and another child had gone home poorly. Suddenly every pitch plan was wrong. How ...

Asked by HillWalk7
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•Matchday

Should the adults tell children when a goal has actually gone in?

weve had a couple where the ball went through a little pop up goal so fast half the players carried on. without a referee, is the facilitator just expected to c...

Asked by JamesInHove
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Player Development

One player scores nearly every goal – do you change anything?

We have one boy who is miles ahead physically at the moment and he probably scores 70% of the goals in whichever three he plays in. I dont want to handicap him ...

Asked by Taff
Verified Answer80
3v3•U7•Out of Possession

Do you coach the player who loses it to chase immediately?

A lot of ours lose the ball then stop for a second because they are annoyed. In 3v3 that second is basically the whole counter-attack. Would you start using a s...

Asked by ColdTouchline82
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Player Development

One child says 3v3 is boring because there are no positions

He has an older brother and is obsessed with being a striker. He keeps asking who the striker is and does not really like the answer that everybody attacks and ...

Asked by LouiseInSuffolk
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•Coach Development

Should an U7 coach ever mention the score between games?

Not talking about league tables or results. More something like 'we conceded three because we all chased the ball'. Is even that making the score too important,...

Asked by GreyHoodie
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Player Development

Do you coach using the weaker foot at U7 or just let them play?

We have a couple who will do anything to get the ball back onto their favourite foot, even if it means turning into trouble. I dont want to start shouting 'left...

Asked by Mark17
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Squad Management

Do you let them switch teams in the middle of a festival if a game is poor?

Not talking about a one-sided score necessarily. Sometimes a three just does not work - two children both want the ball and the third barely touches it. Would y...

Asked by MM48
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Matchday

Do you correct children for blocking the restart?

When the ball goes out, some defenders stand right on top of the player restarting because they have realised it makes the dribble-in almost impossible. The adu...

Asked by SuffolkAlex
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Parents

Is it normal for an U7 to be more tired after 3v3 than 5v5?

My daughter is coming off these short games absolutely shattered even though the total minutes are not huge. She seems to be constantly running because there is...

Asked by KellyH
Verified Answer10
3v3•U7•Coach Development

Why are adults already trying to invent tactics for 3v3?

We have been playing it for about five minutes and people are already talking about pressing triggers, rotations and who should cover behind the ball. Am I bein...

Asked by BlackCoffee
Verified Answer50
3v3•U7•Squad Management

Would you ever group the confident players together in 3v3?

Most of the advice seems to be mix abilities, which makes sense. But we have three really confident children who sometimes dominate whichever group they are put...

Asked by ClaireT
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Squad Management

How many different teammates should an U7 play with in one morning?

With the carousel we could change the threes every game, every two games or barely at all. I like them playing with different people but I also think constantly...

Asked by NatAgain
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•In Possession

How do you coach support when both teammates stand behind the ball?

We have got away from all three chasing it, but now the two without the ball often both stay behind the player in possession. The child on the ball has nobody a...

Asked by MartinF
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

One child refuses to play with anyone except his best friend

U7 group. One boy is fine if he is put in a three with his best friend, but gets upset and says he does not want to play if we split them. I understand he is on...

Asked by Aisha58
Verified Answer30
3v3•U7•Matchday

Should coaches tell U7s which way they are attacking every restart?

Sounds silly but with pitches next to each other and teams changing ends, ours sometimes genuinely forget which goal is theirs. Do you just point them the right...

Asked by LiamH
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Confidence & Behaviour

U7 is starting to ask who the best team of three is

A few of the children have started asking who our 'best three' are because they have noticed certain combinations win more games. I really do not want us creati...

Asked by OliviaP
Verified Answer70
3v3•U7•General Football

Do clubs need more equipment now 3v3 needs more pitches?

We are suddenly realising that four little pitches means a lot more mini goals, cones, balls and bibs than one normal pitch did. How are clubs managing the equi...

Asked by DorsetOlivia
Verified Answer00
3v3•U7•Squad Management

Would you mix boys and girls differently in 3v3?

We have a mixed U7 group and most of the time it is completely fine. The only issue is two of the girls are quieter and, depending who they are grouped with, ca...

Asked by BeckyG
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•Out of Possession

Can you actually coach defending without making a defender?

This is the bit I am finding hardest with 3v3. I completely agree with not fixing one child at the back, but we still want them to notice danger, get between ba...

Asked by WP17
Verified Answer20
3v3•U7•In Possession

How do you help U7 player receive ball without always stop it first?

one player always put foot on top ball and stop, then look. in 3v3 defender arrive very quick so he lose it. would you teach first touch away from pressure now ...

Asked by Tom31
Verified Answer40