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Parents are getting different touchline messages from different coaches

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We have more than one coach around the U10 group and parents are starting to copy whichever instruction they hear most. One coach says let them play, another is shouting reminders constantly. From the club side, is it worth agreeing a simple matchday message for adults as well as players?

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@CoachAishaK

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When instructions conflict, the player stops looking at the game to see the solution and starts looking at the sideline to find the correct answer. The primary goal for these U10s is to develop their own internal map of the pitch, recognising when to dribble or pass based on where the defenders are. Every time a coach shouts, that learning process is interrupted. I suggest implementing a silent first half for all staff. During this period, the only permitted interaction is to observe how the players solve problems on their own. If you need to intervene, try limiting it to one specific question asked during a natural break in play. For example, rather than shouting instructions about positioning, you might ask a player coming off the pitch, What did you notice about the space behind their midfielders when you had the ball? This shifts the focus back to their perception rather than your control.

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BexL

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Yes, I think the adults need one agreed matchday message. We’ve had much calmer sidelines since deciding that one coach gives any necessary information and everyone else sticks to encouragement. It doesn’t mean nobody can coach. It just means the child is not hearing three versions of the same decision while they are trying to play. We also agreed that anything detailed waits until the break, unless it is genuinely urgent.

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