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Are we praising goals so much that everything else looks less important?

Asked by PaulW
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The loudest reactions from adults are always goals. A player can recover 20 yards, win it back and start an attack and gets a quiet 'well done', then somebody taps in and everyone goes mad. Has anyone deliberately changed what the adults celebrate at U8?

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UEFA C Coach

Sports Psychology Level 3

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Yes. Adults teach children what matters through their reactions, even when nobody says it explicitly. If every goal gets the biggest noise and everything else gets a polite clap, children quickly learn that scoring is the action that earns attention. I would not make goals less enjoyable. Celebrate them. But start noticing other things with the same energy: a recovery run, a brave attempt to receive, a teammate helping after a mistake, a defender delaying a 2v1. You can even tell parents before a game what the group is working on and ask them to watch for it. The nice thing is that praise becomes more individual. The child who rarely scores can still leave knowing something they did mattered. At U8, that broadens the idea of success without removing the excitement of putting the ball in the net.

COMMUNITY DISCUSSION

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EllieN

Community Member

Tell parents one thing to look for before the game. Suddenly the whole touchline notices support runs or recovery instead of only shots.
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BeckyG

Community Member

We started making a bigger deal of the action that created the goal, not only the finish.
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Dan10

Community Member

The scorer normally gets enough attention without us adding all of it.
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OliviaP

Community Member

My daughter is a defender and absolutely notices that goals get the big reaction. Her coach started celebrating recoveries and blocks properly and it made a difference.